Edwin and his cousin Marco Antonio were very close growing up. They explored and played for hours in the forests and ponds of their refugee community in Mexico. One of the brightest students in their grade, Marco was nicknamed Cerebro ("Brain"). Despite his great intellectual promise, poverty prevented his family from sending him on to school. As teenagers, the cousins went their separate ways, as Marcos moved to the U.S. and Edwin returned to Guatemala. Marco settled in Oakland, CA. He worked hard and sent money home to his family to put his younger siblings through school. He had a long-term relationship with a woman from Vietnam; their common language was English. Edwin and Marco had not seen each other for 15 years until this January when we visited California for my brother Adrian's wedding.